How fate work...

NOV 2014

The story goes like this, after I started to settle down for my new job, I meet up with my good friend/ex-colleague R, for a dinner at a coffeeshop.

R arrived slightly late and look a bit frustrated. After chatting, I realised that he had a small quarrel with his wife. Then R started to talk his neighbour that married a Vietnamese wife, talk about how good that Vietnamese wife is, how she working part-time, how well she can do the housework, how pretty she is... etc.

Then R started to advise me to find a Vietnamese wife instead of marrying a local wife to torture yourself. LOL

The next day, which is a Saturday afternoon. I was boring and went to the library to read up books/enjoy aircon.

I started to think about what R told me yesterday and decided to search for a girl oversea since my last relationship with a local didn't really work out.

I use an app that could fake my GPS location and set it to Taiwan (At 1st, I wanted to set in Vietnam but I though of languages barriers and hence, I set it to Taiwan instead).

After just one round of searching, A beautiful girl caught my eyes.

She is so beautiful. The very 1st words that came to my mind is "Grace". She simply capture my heart and all I wanted is to get to know her more.

In the end, she is actually a Vietnamese!

This is really how fate work. If time will to turn back, I would believe that I will never met her at all.
After all, I need searching for her at the right place, at the right time and at the right location.

I always thought of going back in time to do things or accomplish tasks that I regretted. But from this moment, I would never want to go back in time as I afraid that I would miss the chance to meet her if I did.
  

很多人

很多人这忙、那忙。。。 却从不帮忙。

很多人不偷、不抢。。。 却常常偷懒。

很多人小心、细心。。。 却往往太多心。

很多人有礼貌。。。却不礼让

人生好比做期货

金钱是人生的手段，人生在世不能没有钱。贫穷会使你感到恐怖和孤独，会使你寸步难行。但追求超过自己的人生需求之外的钱财，就会牺牲一些更有价值的东西。当许多富有者发现自己“穷得只剩下钱”的时候，才更加体会到，金钱应该是人生中更有意义的工作的副产品，而不是人生价值本身。

Found a job

OCT 2014

I manage to get a job in Certis CISCO. The largest security company in Singapore. My basic salary remain the same and yes! I can finally work and feel useful!

My 1st day of work is actually quite busy. 

Lots of things to learn, lots of things to manage.  

But, I find that my direct boss is so much better than my last one. She care about my welfare, motivating, give me my well deserved credits, trust me on my work and never disturb me after work.

Most importantly, I get to use my experience with the police force and my knowledge from my degree on this new job.

I saw a future there, like a ray of light and hope to my life.

It is truly a turning point of my life.

Update from Mid 2014 to 2015

A lot of things happen since my last post, this blog is more or less dead... so I will start with a small account of what happen in point form:

12 Jul 2014: I quit my job as a Police Officer
I rather miss the work place as and when as the pay is good, always on the rise, the leave is good (32 days) and I did miss a few of my ex-colleagues (just a few, the rest are jerk, sucker, backstabber, gossiper and credits stealer)

The main reason for me to quit the job is I feel that my prospect are being hold back by my direct supervisor and I feel that they treat me like a toliet paper (You know, the type that need you to wipe his shit and throw you away afterward.)


About 1 - 2 months later, about Aug - Sep: I broke up with my girlfriend as she is not ready to commit with me.
It all started when we are at IMM looking for a sacoor outlet, slowly start from a debate to a quarrel.
A few days later, a BTO flat is available (TPY area, I really like that area). I asked her to apply together but she said she saw not ready to buy a flat with me(She previously applied with me before).
Asked her for the reason and replied "not ready, not enough money(I been saving money, so it should be enough, plus the flat took 5 years to build. There should be enough time to save the money.), its too soon (We have been dating for 3 years), brother is too young, need to take care of him (I have not idea why it is a reason, it not like she will never see her brother again), Don't wan to stay with my parents(initially, she agreed to live with my parents but I still give in to her by asking her to apply the flat but only married 5 years later.) etc.

I tried to give in as much as I could but she just wanted to stay as it is right now (dating forever). Hence, I asked for a breakup (I actually have a feeling that she is waiting for me to say it 1st).

With that, SEP 2014 is considered a lowest point of my life. No job, no honey, no money... I am starting to worried about my life, my future.

三字经

做人难，人难做，难做人。
赚钱难，钱难赚，难赚钱。

Laziness

How you all ever wonder why there are so many people suffering, and so few people succeed.

Lazy...

Because it is simply easy for a person to do nothing and suffer in silent than to working hard to change it.